I am in a one-sided relationship

I’m feeling lately that the relationship I’m in is a one-sided deal. I’m 40, and have been in this relationship a little over 2 years. I would, and when I’m able, do anything for my girlfriend. I am constantly doing things for her, both big and small. But this is a very one-sided situation. It seems though, that when I’m out of sight, I’m out of mind. Continue reading

I am at the end of my rope

My boyfriend and I been together for 2 years. He has very set opinions which are beginning to override any opinions of my own. We are from different countries and encompass two very different cultures. He doesn’t agree with the way in which my family lives and constantly tells me so. I really love him but I feel trapped. Continue reading

I want a divorce

I want a divorce. I am 47 and have been married 16 years. We have 2 sons. Approximately 5 years ago, I found out my husband was having an affair. He broke off the affair and lived with his mother about 2 hours away. He moved back in after 4 months. I’ve had a difficult time trusting him ever since. His position is that he doesn’t have to account for what he does or with whom. Continue reading

He wants kids, but I do not

Hi, I’m 28 years old. I met this great guy a few months ago. He keeps talking of marriage and having kids. My problem is I do not know how to tell him that I don’t want children. I never have wanted them and never will. I prefer to have a cat. What should I do? Continue reading

He was abusive. Should I stay?

About 3 months ago, I met a wonderful man. I am so in love with him that it scares me to be so vulnerable… which is why this threw me so badly: A week ago, we went to a party (which I had a weird gut feeling about) with neighbors of his. At the party, he didn’t have much to drink, but quickly became confused, forgetful and belligerent. Continue reading

I want kids but he is not sure

I am 28 years old and have been in a 3 year relationship with a man. He has 2 children from a former marriage. We are very much in love and happy with each other. The problem is I want to have children and after all he has been through with his divorce is not sure if he wants to have more kids. Continue reading