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Is Your Marriage in Trouble?

Many couples don't have effective tools to repair rifts and maintain happiness. This can lead to reactivity, conflicts, and distancing.

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Learn effective communication tools to get positive results, heal rifts or upsets, work with differences, and operate securely as a team.

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John Grey, PhD

About John Grey, PhD

For over three decades, John has helped couples make positive changes and have the happy, loving relationships they truly want.

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Get the Help that’s Saved Thousands of Marriages

Does your relationship suffer from poor communication, upset feelings, emotional wounds, built-up walls or walking on eggshells? Do you feel stuck in negative cycles, reactivity and dissatisfaction? With the right tools, you can overcome such love-killing patterns and stop them from destroying your marriage. At a couples retreat with John you gain effective tools to resolve issues, dissolve walls, heal upsets, and turn things around.

John usually sees couples in crisis, on the brink of divorce, often suffering from infidelity or other major issues. His special approach helps partners reconnect, renewing hope and positive feelings. And they acquire the tools that ensure their love will continue to thrive. John’s skill at coaching, combined with his intensive retreat format, is unique in its power to transform relationships, even those stuck for decades!

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A Unique and Powerful Approach to Helping Couples

Nationally-recognized as a pioneer of couples retreats, John has been conducting intensive marriage retreats for over three decades. But what he offers is far more than just the intensive format. His approach to the work itself is distinctly different than what couples therapy or marriage counseling typically offers. Due to his exceptional efficacy, John has been sought by therapists for training in his state-of-the-art approach to working with couples based on neuroscience and attachment research. John’s couples retreats offer a fast track to improve communication, overcome difficulties, reconnect, and reinvigorate intimacy. Clients routinely say they get far more than they ever hoped for. And, they have the tools and confidence to keep things on track.

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See John’s Work Featured in a Movie

In their documentary film “I’m Going to Break Your Heart” Canadian rock star couple Chantal Kreviazuk and Raine Maida feature marriage coaching sessions they received from John. Reviewing the movie, Billboard Magazine said “the film captures their creative process while following the pair into sessions with couples coach Dr. John Grey.”

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The Author of Four Relationship Help Books

Based on his extensive experience of successfully helping thousands of couples in his intensive marriage retreats, John has authored four relationship help books. Praising his latest book, fellow relationship expert Stan Tatkin says it will “help anyone wishing to repair an ailing relationship. With decades of experience behind him John Grey is a highly intelligent, creative force in the arena of science and relationships. His work is inventive and inspiring.” Now you can directly benefit from John’s seasoned guidance by having your own marriage retreat and getting the practical tools and strategies you need to enjoy the loving, supportive, and happy relationship you truly want.

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John Grey's Latest Book

"Everything you need to create a secure, lasting bond with your partner."
— Jack Canfield, author of Chicken Soup for the Soul

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