Use the resources below for relationship help and love advice. Browse relationship help articles. See John’s love advice answers to readers’ relationship questions. Play with the relationship cards. Take the relationship quiz. Read excerpts from John’s books.
Relationship Help Articles
Read relationship help articles that offer insights into how to transform negative patterns, communicate better, and keep love and happiness alive.
Get information to help you have a rewarding love life and a great relationship. Resolve issues and see how to share the qualities you truly want in love.
Here are some of the many articles available:
- Attachment Types & How We Relate
- New Steps for Thriving Love
- Three Keys to a Secure Partnership
- Collaborate for a Win-Win
- Ending the Vicious Cycle
- How to Stop Poor Communication
- Importance of Quick Repair
- Keys to Relationship Repair
- On the Brink of Divorce
- Relationship CPR
- Personality Types in Love
- Beyond the Honeymoon
- How to Repair Upsets & Stay Happy
- Love 3.0 – Rules for a Strong Marriage
- Agree to Stop the Damage
- Rule One for Lasting Love
- Eliminate Blowups & Shutdowns
- Love Is Not Enough
- Battle of Thinkers vs Feelers
- Connect Fast vs Slow Communicators
- Overcome Pursuer vs Withdrawer
- Soulmates – Myth or Reality?
- How to Know a Soulmate
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The Love Quiz
Take our short relationship quiz and discover the simple foundations that promote lasting happiness and satisfaction in love.
This simple quiz gets to the heart of the matter. Answer five questions about what you think makes a great relationship — and find out if your beliefs are limiting you.
John’s Love Advice Column
Browse our love advice posts in which John has answered hundreds of individual readers’ questions about their relationship problems.
You may discover answers to your own questions or issues through the eyes of another person who has a similar situation.
Here are some categories of love advice:
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John’s Coaching in Action on Screen
In their 2019 documentary “I’m Going to Break Your Heart” Canadian rock star couple Chantal Kreviazuk and Raine Maida feature marriage coaching sessions they received from John. Reviewing the movie, Billboard Magazine said “the film captures their creative process while following the pair into sessions with couples coach Dr. John Grey.”
I’m Going to Break Your Heart captures the raw and wrenching journey these renowned singer-songwriters took to find their way back to each other. Filmed on an isolated but romantic island in the dead of winter, the documentary immerses viewers in their musical relationship, even as it exposes long-standing wounds and unresolved heartache.
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Relationship Tools for Positive Change
Resolve Conflict, Stay Connected, Share Lasting Happiness
Couples who stay happy have the tools to keep love and good feelings alive, even through the tests of time. They know how to work through the inevitable challenges that all couples encounter — and do so in a way that strengthens loving connection. To have lasting satisfaction, you need to know how to keep love strong and resolve your differences.
Get immediate relationship help from an entertaining and informative book that gives you practical tools to overcome problems and issues, heal upset feelings, communicate and get positive results, and maximize shared happiness and love.
“Of help to anyone wishing to repair an ailing relationship. John is a highly intelligent force in the field of science and relationships.”
— Stan Tatkin, Wired for Love
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The Relationship Cards
Interactive Relationship Help for Love Advice
This is an interactive system for relationship advice. It’s almost like getting live coaching! It’s always on tap to give you relationship help — whenever you need advice, have a question, or want to resolve an issue or problem in love.
This self-help system stands ready to assist you to overcome challenges in love. It will give you new perspective on whatever matter you want to explore — a perspective that expands your options to have the loving relationship you truly want.
“This tool can help you improve communication, deal with issues, and reawaken vitality of connection.”
— John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
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Five-Minute Relationship Repair
Relationship Advice No Couple Should Be Without
Lasting happiness depends on a couple’s capacity to repair the inevitable rifts that come up in relationship. Based on the latest research, this relationship help book shows you how, step-by-step, to engage in effective, reparative communication. You will learn how to express yourself constructively, truly resolve problems, and get your core needs met.
Following its guidance, you can turn any difference into an opportunity to build more love and trust. In its pages you will discover the language of lasting love, where you and your partner speak and act in ways that foster ongoing happiness and thriving intimacy.
“With the practices offered in this book, you have everything you need to create a secure, lasting bond with your partner.”
— Jack Canfield, Chicken Soup for the Couples Soul