We offer two different types of intensive marriage retreats, or couples retreats. These two programs are called:
Get all the details about both of these programs below, including logistical information, costs and scheduling.
And if you haven’t seen it, here’s the overall description of our retreats →
Virtual Marriage Retreats via Zoom
We are located in California, in the San Francisco Bay Area, in Sonoma County. During the pandemic we have been primarily conducting virtual intensive retreats online using Zoom. For current information about meeting in person read this →
Having used online video for years, we effectively deliver best-in-class relationship help. Couples report our virtual programs as equal in effectiveness to in-person work, if not better! Here’s what couples are saying:
See all the details, costs & scheduling for our two retreat programs below…
The Private Virtual Marriage Retreat
In the Private Marriage Retreat program individual couples get fully-customized coaching and help from John Grey, PhD.
This 3 or 4 day long intensive program provides couples clarity and a profound depth of positive transformation and change.
It is by far in the highest demand by partners who are facing major issues or distress and want to take significant steps in making meaningful improvements in their relationship.
The standard day in this program is two 3-hour sessions with a break between. Retreats are 3 to 4 standard days long (total of 18 to 24 hours of work). The flexibility of working virtually also enables you to spread out these 3-hour sessions over more days.
The most common intensive marriage retreat program with John is 3 standard days long. This provides the time for most couples to learn the tools they need, resolve issues, and make major positive shifts in how they feel — restoring trust, intimacy, hope, connection — and confidence going forward with effective communication tools and strategies.
Many couples who have the need, resources, or interest opt to do a 4-day retreat. The added 6 hours helps achieve deeper results in mastering their new, positive communication tools. The added time can also help more deeply heal old emotional wounds and shift into a place of trust and re-connection.
John always recommends a 4-day length if a couple is suffering from past affairs, traumas, or significant emotional wounds; if someone’s deeply ambivalent about staying married; or if there are multiple significant issues.
There is also powerful preparatory work that primes you before your retreat with John begins. Many couples have reported this work shifted things in a positive way even before they got to their retreat. Follow-up coaching is also available to help you stay on track and integrate the tools and changes you acquire in the retreat into your daily lives.
Here are details about what a virtual Private Marriage Retreat with John is like, what couples say about them, the costs and how to set one up:
WHAT HAPPENS IN A RETREAT? Read about what you will do in a retreat →
TESTIMONIALS: See what couples say about their retreats with John →
VIRTUAL RETREAT REVIEWS: What couples say about our virtual retreats →
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS: Get answers to common questions →
COST: The per-couple cost is $2950 per 6-hour day. A “standard day” consists of two 3-hour sessions, for 6 hours total.
TIMING & LENGTH: Standard retreats are between 3 and 5 standard days. With virtual retreats, we can schedule sessions to meet your timing needs. You could do 6-hour days in a row or spread out a series of 3-hour sessions over a week or more.
CONTACT JOHN: John would be happy to discuss our retreats with you either by phone or email. Feel free to contact him with any questions you have →
SIGN UP: After you and John have set specific dates for your retreat, you can reserve those dates and book your retreat here →
With a virtual retreat, we now offer flexibility in scheduling your retreat to meet any of your specific timing needs. Hence we don’t have a fixed-day sign-up calendar.
Instead, contact John to discuss dates for your retreat. Then reserve your retreat with a deposit. Just follow these two steps:
STEP 1: Set up the dates for your retreat by calling or texting John at (707) 536-5781 or by reaching him through our contact page here →
STEP 2: Once you and John have settled on the specific dates for your retreat, then either click in the box below, or reserve your dates here →
Book a Private Marriage Retreat with John Grey
The Special Virtual Couples Retreat
The Special Retreat is a proven, powerfully structured 3-day program with Hazal Grey, MA, MFA, RDT, REAT, RSME/T.
Read all about Hazal’s background and approach here →
For years Hazal and John have jointly presented their popular and dynamic 3-day Couples Retreats for groups.
During the pandemic, retreats are conducted virtually. As we found virtual groups not to be effective, we stopped offering the program to groups of couples.
That said, the program structured for the group has proven powerful and successful beyond all expectations, as you can see in all the feedback we routinely received from participants.
Hazal wanted to continue offering this program virtually as a Special Couples Retreat, but conducting it with one couple at a time! So, you can now work with Hazal privately for the same cost as previously charged for sharing a group retreat with 8 couples.
You get powerful relationship tools, along with structured exercises and coaching. It follows a set program while addressing your specific issues, giving you the key tools to heal, reconnect, and build a solid, thriving relationship.
Because Hazal works with one couple at a time delivering the group program, some clients describe it as getting the best of both worlds at an affordable cost.
If your situation is particularly distressing and complex, or if you simply have the means, we’d always suggest the Private Marriage Retreat for more in-depth, tailored coaching.
The Special Couples Retreat program consists of six 3-hour sessions. These are usually delivered over 3 consecutive days.
But since meetings are virtual, you can opt to spread sessions out over more days. In each 3-hour session, you will work with Hazal for two hours. In the third hour, there’s a structured exercise for you to do as a couple.
There is also powerful preparatory work that primes you before a retreat begins. Many couples said it shifted things in a positive way even before they got to their retreats. Follow-up coaching is also available to help you stay on track and integrate the tools and changes you acquire in the retreat into your daily lives.
PROGRAM REVIEWS: What couples say about our retreat program →
TESTIMONIALS: See what couples report about working with Hazal →
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS: Get answers to common questions →
COST: The per-couple cost is $2950 total for the full 3-day program.
TIMING & LENGTH: The program is 3 standard days long. Working virtually, Hazal can schedule sessions to meet your timing needs. You could do three 6-hour days in a row or spread out your sessions over more time.
ADD-ON DAYS: For extra depth, you can add one or more Private Retreat days with Hazal onto the end of your Special Retreat program.
CONTACT HAZAL: Hazal would be happy to discuss a retreat with you either by phone or email. Feel free to call her at (707) 787-1967 or contact Hazal here →
SIGN UP: After you and Hazal have set specific dates for your retreat, you can reserve those dates and book your retreat here →