Relationship Help Cards
This special deck of cards offers practical advice on matters of the heart. Like a set of flash cards for love, they give you help on how to work with problems and remind you what promotes lasting happiness.
Dr. John Gray — author of the bestselling Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus — says this about the cards: “This tool can help you improve communication, deal with issues, explore dreams, and reawaken vitality of connection…” Read more →
Each card speaks to an essential ingredient for a healthy, fulfilling relationship. Take this information to heart to stay on a positive track. Consider this deck to be a set of “flashcards” for relationship help. You may even enjoy thinking of it as a kind of “oracle” you consult for relationship questions and issues.
There are two ways to use the cards — Ask the Oracle and Message for the Day…
Ask the Oracle
In this method you pick three to five cards. Click on the crystal ball image to the left to go ahead and do this now.
Picking three or more Relationship Help Cards is an ideal way to get in-depth insights and help with a specific relationship question or issue you are experiencing.
We call this method Ask the Oracle because it fun game with insightful flashcards. Each of your cards gives you more information about your question. They build on each other. And, if you enjoy the idea, you could even consider this to be like consulting a deck of tarot cards to get answers to relationship questions.
To try this out click the crystal ball above or this button: Ask the Oracle
Note: Certain browsers (e.g. Chrome desktop) do not support all the Ask the Oracle features. So we recommend using Safari or Firefox if you run into a problem.
Message for the Day
One way to get your Message for the Day is to turn over the card in the box below. Just click on it to see what you get. Then click again and see the full message…

Here’s your card with its face down.
Click it to turn it over and see what you got.
Shuffle and get a new card: Get a New Card
Another way to get your Message for the Day is to browse and choose from one of the many Relationship Help Cards that are listed below. Either way, take the insights you get from it into your life, reflect on it during your day or apply it to get help with a relationship issue you are experiencing.
Below is a complete listing of Relationship Help Cards. Click on any card’s name that appeals to you. Use your intuition. As you look through the list, stop at any word that peaks your curiosity or that gives you a special feeling.
When you click on any name below, you will see a picture of that card along with the insights it is offering to you. Go ahead and click on one of the following names now:
Agreements
Appreciation
Backstage
Balance
Barriers
Black & White
Blind Spots
Boundaries
Clues
Completion
Connecting
Containment
Definitions
Differences
Dodging Arrows
Ebb & Flow
Empowerment
Expression
Facts
Feelings
Flow Through
Freedom
Full Spectrum
Growth
Harmony
Healing
Heart
History
Individuality
Inner Child
Judgments
Lightness
Listening
Mirrors
Not Knowing
Nurturing
Opening
Ownership
Patience
Patterns
Perspective
Polarities
Presence
Projection
Psychic
Roles
Safety
Scoring Points
Sensitivities
Shared Vision
Solitude
Support
Tapes
Time
Timing
Touch
Transformation
Wants & Needs
Wholeness
Witness