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She spends too much time with her ex

I had to move to a new state about an hour away from my hometown where my girlfriend lives. A month before moving, I learned that my girlfriend had cheated on me twice. They were just kisses, and I believe I may have “pushed” her into the situations. We broke up and hadn’t spoken for about two months after I moved. But we still loved each other. Continue reading

He has a double standard

My boss was hitting on me. I told my fiance and he went nuts. He told me to say something to him. He said I’m too nice and I can’t let this guy get away with this. Well the job my fiance just started, his boss is a women. She likes him. So I told him to do the same things he told me to do. He won’t. Why is it different for me? We are in the same situation yet he won’t take action. Why? Continue reading

My friend is dying to meet my guy

I began a relationship with a wonderful man a year ago. When our relationship was new, I confided in a female coworker my insecurities. I probably told her way too much. She kept asking to see pictures of my “beau.” So I showed her. Her reaction was shocking in that she started raving about how cute he was and that she “couldn’t wait to meet him.” Continue reading

I am jealous and doubt his love

My boyfriend and I went to a club last Saturday. He told me about this girl that he had sex with less than two years ago. He saw her at the club we were at Saturday and was talking to her. I became extremely upset and jealous with him, so we left. He told me who she was and that upset me even more. The next day I felt really bad and apologized to him. Continue reading

I am jealous about her ex

I have been dating a woman for about 6 months. We are in love and have discussed marriage recently. One of the issues that I have is that she has a lot of male friends. She still keeps in touch with one of her old boyfriends who is currently working overseas. She broke up with him about a year and a half ago but he still wants to see her and her daughter when he comes into town. Continue reading

He is dating someone, but asks me to wait

I really like this guy. We talked for awhile. He really liked me back a lot. Then one of his old flames called him up and told him she loved him and all that. Now they are dating. He says its only because he feels guilty for what he did to her in the past. He tells me he still likes me and please wait for him. I really want to but it might take awhile. Should I wait? Continue reading

My boyfriend wants a threesome

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months and sparks flew so much. I know he still checks out the ladies and I don’t care that he looks. He wants to have a threesome now but I don’t think that it would be good for our relationship but he doesn’t want to accept that. How do I make him see how that makes me feel even though I understand his need for experimentation? Continue reading

Insecurities are killing our love

After living together with my girlfriend for 2 years we started to have problems. I ended up moving out. That was a year ago. About 6 months later we ended up breaking off the relationship. During this time she ended up meeting another guy. About 2 months later we ended up talking things out and getting back together. Then I found out about that guy. Continue reading

I still think about my ex all the time

I just don’t know if I’m with the right person. It’s been over a year since I broke up with my ex and still think of him. I met my current boyfriend a year ago. I had broke up with my ex 2 months before that. So I think of him all the time. But I love my boyfriend so much right now. Continue reading

He is still attached to his ex

I have a problem with my boyfriend’s ex girlfriend. He was still seeing her when we met. At first it was no big deal, him and I had no commitment and were free to see others. But his actions toward me were telling me he wanted to be with me, yet he was still seeing her. This confused me and I confronted him, but he never gave me a definite answer. Continue reading

We never have enough time together

My husband and I had a huge fight a few days ago, because he wanted to go fishing with his buddy. He works away from home 4 days a week, and I feel like we never have enough time together. The past three weekends in a row he has spent one entire day doing something with his friends. I have a very extreme reaction and I don’t know how to stop it when that happens. Continue reading

We had a wicked fight

I met my soulmate. We have been together nearly three years and have a baby boy. We have had several issues and we are finally stable in our new home. She wanted to be married from the start especially after the baby. We planned several times but timing and finances has not allowed us a level of comfort to be married. She currently is packing from a wicked fight. Continue reading

He still sees his last girlfriend

I’m a 46 year old woman who has been dating a 46 year old man for 6 months on and off. One of the biggest problems I have had with our relationship is he is still seeing his last girlfriend who he dated for two years. In the first two months of seeing me he was still seeing her at least once a week and they called each other every other day or so. Continue reading

His friendship with a woman bothers me

For the past eight months I have been in a serious relationship with a man that I love very much. I have dedicated myself to this relationship in a way that I have not done so before. This is why my feeling regarding a past fling of his concerns me. Continue reading

She is jealous of my ex

My girlfriend of 2 months recently told me that she doesn’t feel she has all my heart. She is jealous of my ex. She believes that I am still in love with my ex whom I went out with for four years, it’s been two years since our break up. We broke up because we know there is no future for us together. I told my girlfriend that my ex and I are just friends (distant friends at that). Continue reading

I am engaged but met someone else

I am 19, and I have been together with my fiance for almost 5 years. About 6 months ago I met someone else with whom I feel a much deeper connection. I love my fiance dearly, and I do not want to hurt her again, and I am more than willing to stay by her side, and I do believe that we will both be happy that way. However, the other person is much more suited to me. Continue reading

I feel jealous around his ex

My fiancee of two years is the love of my life and after some time I accept he loves me just as much. It took me so long to believe he loved me because of his ex-girlfriend whom he was with for five years. Whenever I was out with him and she was at the same bar, gig, party he would always stare at her or go over to were she was standing even if she was with her new man. Continue reading